“The Escapade”: A New Elopement in Puerto Rico
Just us…
For the longest time I’ve been a fan of documenting the longest and most lavish weddings in Puerto Rico. I’ve been fortunate as a Puerto Rico wedding photographer to shoot everything from the Metro Area to the boonies on the west coast and I have absolutely no regrets. Hacienda Siesta Alegre and the Condado Vanderbilt Hotel are two of my most widely requested venues of which I’ve seen every nook and cranny. Professional photographers in Puerto Rico know that we strive to shoot weddings the most because of the environment, the entourage, the planning and just overall fireworks that come with such a glorious day for a couple. More recently, however, I’ve been noticing a steady decline in how and how long I interact with my couples. “The Escapade” aims to change that.
I’ve been sitting on this idea for a very long time because I wanted to carefully and meticulously craft something for couples that don’t necessarily want to go the route of having to invest tens of thousands of dollars, hire multiple vendors and deal with the stress of worrying about everything all at once. As a Puerto Rico photographer, I’ve been marinating ways through which I could encapsulate a couple’s love and affection while at the same time circumventing all the toil and trouble that comes with a convoluted wedding experience…and I think I’ve achieved it. I’d like to introduce you to ‘The Escapade”: an outside-the-box approach to wedding photography in Puerto Rico.
…and now you may kiss the bride.
Picture this…
You arrive in Puerto Rico where I pick you up in your vehicle of choice, help you load your luggage in the car and drive you to the hotel you booked or the AirBnB you reserved months in advance. By now we’ve already gotten to know each other via virtual meetings but during this ride we get to become acquaintances and vibe the entire time there. I ask more about lovey-dovey stories while you giggle and laugh and you ask me about my experiences as a destination wedding photographer in Puerto Rico. Once we arrive at your destination, we hop back in the car I’ve rented for us because we cannot be late for the reservation I’ve made for dinner; it’ll be at one of the most sought-after restaurants in the city and you absolutely have to try their dessert menu.
Granted, this entire time I’ve been taking candid pictures because ‘The Escapade’ started the moment you set foot on the island. As I drop you off at your place, we go over the game plan: I’ll swing by again in the morning to commence the first of two creative photography sessions for the day. The reason I want to do two sessions (and not one) is because I’m not enchanted with the fact that I only get to spend between fifteen to twenty minutes (at most) with my couples during a wedding. We agree that these sessions are free flowing, with little to no posing and more of a candid vibe since the goal is to essentially hide in the shadows and ‘phlog’ (log in photographs) your journey together.
Let’s dance…
I show up early in the morning around 7 a.m. to see you two enjoying breakfast. Already with my camera in hand, I start shooting away the intimacy of your love: feeding each other, smiling and having a great conversation about how amazing the rest of your day is going to be. The goal from this moment forward is to spend the next few hours showcasing what true love really is: the little things. ‘The Escapade’ for me is about capturing real intimacy and romance while letting loose and being yourselves. It’s about the genuine moments that made you fall for each other and the authenticity with which it’ll show up in camera. To clarify, I’ll always be around during this time but my intervention will be as little and distant as possible because I don’t want to interfere or get in the way of magical moments as they arise.
All of a sudden, I get a text. It’s the officiant that I’ve booked as part of your package. That’s right: you don’t even have to worry about that because I’ve got it all covered. I tell him that we’re still on for our agreed upon time and that we’ll meet him outside once your choice of symbolic and/or legal ceremony is set to take place. In the meantime, we now pivot to the getting ready. This is very near and dear to my heart because it’s the preface of what is going to be your long and prosperous life together. As a wedding photographer in Puerto Rico, I’m used to a lot of ‘first looks’: that stage of the wedding where a groom gets tapped on the shoulder and turns around to then soak in his bride for the first time. As part of ‘The Escapade’ you get to help each other dress for the occasion instead. With camera in hand, I’ll be by your side as you help him throw on his shirt and he returns the favor by helping zip up your dress. It’s about doing everything together.
Let’s go away together…
In between shots, I make sure to gather your precious details and get up close and personal with them using the natural light that’s readily available. That’s one thing you should know about ‘The Escapade’: little to no flash will be used. Why? That’s because I want you to be able to experience your elopement in Puerto Rico just as nature intended: organically. Whenever you choose your housing arrangement, a venue with a vast amount of windows is preferred so that we can take advantage of that glorious Sun both in the morning as well as golden hour in the afternoon. Couples photography just hits different when there are less moving parts and more naturally happening occurrences.
Now that you two are looking dapper, the time has come to make it official. As we make our way to the officiant, I’m circling you both as you stare into each other’s eyes not believing what’s about to happen. The culmination of your affection is about to show up front and center for the most important day of your life: the day in which you both become one. You arrive at either and archway or a grassy knoll overlooking the Puerto Rican mountains and feel a fresh breeze caressing your hair as you grab each other’s hands and hear the officiant’s welcome. As you go through the process, you reach into your respective pockets to verbalize the vows you’ve perfected in anticipation for this climactic moment. I’m there creating memories with every heartfelt sentence while you gaze into each other’s eyes verbalizing the promises that will hold your relationship together for decades to come.
Forever can’t start soon enough…
As if that wasn’t fun enough, the real fun is just getting started. The festivities begin by enjoying the first of many activities you’ve selected for yourselves as part of ‘The Escapade’ package that you chose. You can either go visit ‘El Yunque’: Puerto Rico’s most famous landmark or switch things up with a couple’s massage in order to wind down a bit. The great thing about this decision is that there is no wrong answer and anything goes. By now I’m sure you're working quite the appetite so it’s only right we swing by that place by the corner that’s waiting for you with a private table for two. As I sneak in a few pictures from afar, you both sit down to enjoy a delicious ‘mofongo’: the Puerto Rican cuisine staple. You both wash it down with a cup of the finest coffee in the world because you’ll need the energy for the afternoon session on which we’re about to embark.
It just so happens that you chose to have it on a sunset cruise in Old San Juan overlooking the bay as our yellow friend in the sky disappears just over the water. You’re both looking ravishing as I snap a few pictures with that golden glow in the background. You play, you laugh and sip from each other’s glass soaking in what is left of the rays. By now you’re fully immersed in what ‘The Escapade’ is all about: a chance for you to forego the otherwise simple elopement ceremony and truly invest in yourselves. This concept was concocted with the intention of putting love first, having stages all throughout and providing an opportunity to enjoy each other’s company and commemorate every instant with little to no entourage or hassle. Once it’s all said and done, you pack up your things, I take you both back to the airport where we hug it out and talk about how lovely it’ll be to see all of the pictures I’ve taken printed on the album that will eventually show up at your doorstep.
