The Rise of the Anti-Wedding Trend: Why More Couples Are Saying No to Traditional Weddings

Anti-weddings are here to stay

     In recent years, a growing number of couples have been turning away from traditional wedding expectations in favor of a more personal and meaningful celebration. This movement, often called the "anti-wedding" trend, is changing the way weddings are planned and executed. As a Puerto Rico wedding photographer, I’ve noticed that many couples traveling here for destination weddings are opting for unique, non-traditional experiences rather than the typical grand ballroom celebration. But what exactly is the anti-wedding movement, and why is it gaining popularity?

What is the Anti-Wedding Trend?

Do whatever you want.

     An anti-wedding is a deliberate rejection of conventional wedding norms. Instead of a large, highly structured event, couples are embracing smaller, more intimate, and unconventional celebrations that reflect their personalities. Some key elements of anti-weddings include:

• Ditching traditional wedding attire – Brides may opt for a colorful dress, a jumpsuit, or even thrifted fashion, while grooms might skip the tux altogether.

• Choosing unique venues – From beachfront elopements to casual backyard gatherings, couples are selecting spaces that hold sentimental value over extravagant wedding halls.

• Reducing guest lists – Many anti-weddings feature micro-weddings or elopements, prioritizing quality time with close family and friends rather than hosting hundreds of guests.

• Skipping unnecessary traditions – No bouquet toss, no bridal party, no rehearsed first dance—just an authentic experience tailored to the couple’s preferences.

• Prioritizing experience over performance – The focus is on the moment rather than creating an Instagram-worthy aesthetic.

     For wedding photographers in Puerto Rico, this shift has been especially exciting. The flexibility of anti-weddings allows for creative storytelling, capturing raw emotions, stunning landscapes, and deeply personal moments.

Why is the Anti-Wedding Trend Growing?

Think outside-the-box

Pandemic-Induced Changes

     COVID-19 forced many couples to rethink their wedding plans, leading to an increase in elopements and micro-weddings. Even after restrictions lifted, many couples realized they preferred the intimacy and affordability of a smaller celebration over the stress of a large wedding.

Rising Wedding Costs

     The average cost of a traditional wedding in the U.S. is over $30,000. Many couples are questioning whether it’s worth the expense when they could use that money for travel, a home, or personal goals instead.

Breaking Free from Wedding Industry Expectations

     Couples today value authenticity over tradition. The pressure from social media and the wedding industry to create a "perfect" wedding has become exhausting. Instead, many couples are rejecting these pressures and focusing on what truly matters to them.

A Shift in Priorities for Millennials & Gen Z

     Younger generations are prioritizing experiences, sustainability, and financial responsibility over extravagant displays. They’re choosing meaningful, memorable weddings over conventional extravagance.

How Puerto Rico is Becoming an Anti-Wedding Destination

There’s a grey area to weddings.

     Puerto Rico is emerging as an ideal location for couples seeking an anti-wedding experience. With breathtaking beaches, lush mountains, and charming historic sites, it offers the perfect backdrop for intimate and unique weddings. As a Puerto Rico wedding photographer, I’ve captured ceremonies on remote beaches, in hidden rainforest waterfalls, and within the colorful streets of Old San Juan—each one designed to reflect the couple’s unique love story rather than adhere to wedding norms.

Why Puerto Rico is the Perfect Anti-Wedding Destination:

1. Stunning, Natural Beauty – From white-sand beaches to tropical forests, Puerto Rico provides a diverse range of breathtaking settings for intimate ceremonies.

2. Affordability Compared to Traditional Venues – Many couples find that hosting an elopement or micro-wedding in Puerto Rico is far more cost-effective than a large event in the U.S.

3. Adventure & Experience-Based Weddings – Couples are incorporating adventurous activities like hiking, surfing, and sailing into their wedding day to make it unforgettable.

4. Laid-Back Atmosphere – Unlike the rigid structure of traditional weddings, Puerto Rico offers a relaxed vibe perfect for couples seeking an authentic and stress-free experience.

Capturing the Anti-Wedding Spirit as a Wedding Photographer in Puerto Rico

All day I dream about anti-weddings

     For wedding photographers in Puerto Rico, anti-weddings offer the chance to document weddings in a more organic and emotional way. Instead of focusing on staged moments, we capture the natural chemistry between couples, the breathtaking scenery, and the raw emotions of the day.

     If you’re considering an anti-wedding in Puerto Rico, let’s create something truly unforgettable. Whether you’re eloping on a secluded beach or hosting an intimate dinner with loved ones, I’d love to be your Puerto Rico wedding photographer, capturing the moments that truly matter. Reach out today to start planning your unique wedding experience!

Romantic Mountain Elopement in Puerto Rico: A Wedding Photographer’s Dream

Mosquito net provided great composition.

     As usual, my website's SEO prompts me that I've received yet another lead. This time it was from a young lady named Corrin who tells me that she's looking to elope in Puerto Rico after being on the island for a few days with her fiancé, Ben.

     The inquiry actually came by way of Tim Blackford from Peace, Love, Weddings, one of the best wedding officiants in Puerto Rico. Tim and I go way back to my early days as a wedding photographer in Puerto Rico and hit it off almost immediately. Since then, we've kept in touch quite frequently and referred each other time and time again because we get along so great. When it comes to wedding officiants in Puerto Rico, Tim is usually at the top and highly sought-after; as a result, he's usually the officiant of choice at more than 75% of my weddings in Puerto Rico.

Cinematic and filmic

      To no surprise, Tim was actually the one who referred me to Corrin, who was on the fence about wedding venues in Puerto Rico. As is the norm, most people prefer a lovely beach setting with a nice Golden Hour sunset as their backdrop, but not Ben or Corrin. They came to town from Rhode Island escaping the cold winter and flirted with the idea of having an elopement up in the mountains with lush greenery and epic views instead. They landed on a gorgeous home in Orocovis, a city nestled right in the middle of Puerto Rico.

     As soon as they sent me the link to Airbnb, I thought it featured a lot of nooks and crannies that I could use to my advantage to create interesting portraits and have fun with composition as a wedding photographer in Puerto Rico; I told them to book it as soon as possible because of the high demand.

The Elopement Day: A Wedding Photographer’s Dream

Elopement in Puerto Rico

     The day of their elopement rolled around, and I had to leave my house at least two hours early because just to get to Orocovis was about an hour and a half drive for me. As a Puerto Rico elopement photographer, I sometimes enjoy gifting my couples at least an extra half hour of my time, not just to prevent stress from rearing its ugly head, but to also take some getting ready shots of them and put myself in a position to tell their story a lot more thoroughly.

     Ben received me at the top of the hill that leads to the home, shook my hand, and we started making small talk while I could catch a glimpse of Corrin through the glass windows writing her vows on the kitchen table. When I asked Ben if he had vows of his own, he simply turned to me and said: "I'm gonna shoot from the hip." His bold move paid off; his words were beautiful.

Glistening

     As promised, we started our session together taking pictures of the couple getting ready and helping each other do so. I also snuck in a few requested images of their wedding bands and rings in a small statue ornament in the living room, which benefited from nice, soft diffused light.

     Tim showed up shortly thereafter, and we got started on the actual nuptials. I positioned them with Tim's back facing the mountains as soon as I realized that the sun would play a huge role in our favor as my key light. Ben and Corrin were beside him facing each other, enjoying that gorgeous glow that came in through the clouds behind me.

Just us.

     Since this was an elopement and not a convoluted wedding, I began scoping the venue for places where we could take some creative portraiture and use the surroundings for composition purposes. For the next two hours, I took pictures of Ben and Corrin embracing, being sweet, and kissing each other, which is exactly what they desired from me.

     They were the most down-to-earth couple with which I've ever had the pleasure of working. Not once did they say 'no' to me and just went with every one of my ideas that popped into my head at the spur of the moment. The images show affection, intimacy, and romance.

Why Choose an Elopement in Puerto Rico?

Kiss me forever.

     I'm starting to think elopements bring out the best of me as a photographer, and I look forward to shooting many more. If you're considering wedding venues in Puerto Rico for your own elopement, feel free to shoot me a message via my contact form to schedule a consultation. There are countless wedding venues in Puerto Rico to suit your vision, whether you prefer a secluded beach, a historic hacienda, or a scenic mountain retreat like Corrin and Ben.

Book Your Puerto Rico Elopement Today

     If you’re looking for a wedding photographer in Puerto Rico who specializes in capturing the magic of elopements in Puerto Rico, I’d love to help bring your vision to life. Contact me via my website’s inquiry form to schedule a consultation and start planning your unforgettable elopement experience!